Can anyone help my friend?

My friend Della is in the Radcliffe Hospital after two operations she had to correct oestoperosis in her neck went wrong. She now looks worse than photo 2 as since the last operation part of a vertebrae is now sticking out of the back of her neck. Today a young doctor told her it would be better if she just let herself slip away during the next operation.

Better for him perhaps as he wouldn't have to correct the
mistakes they made. 

The lady with the gorgeous red hair on the right is Della before the operation.

This is Della after the "Corrective" Surgery below.
Can anyone help? I wrote to the GMC today perhaps
I'm interfering, but I love my friend and don't want her
to be killed by the NHS.