The one Sunday I dread with all my heart. My friends are all "Guess what the girls gave me for Mothers Day?" and flaunt flowers and charm bracelets at me, "My son is so brilliant" one will say "he's taking me out to lunch and got me theatre tickets." Another friend's house is full of roses courtesy of her son and daughter.
I just have an empty burning ache in my heart.
I don't know where my son is, I wasn't invited to his wedding, I don't know whether he's happy or sad or excited or if his life has changed. I miss him and want to hear him say "Hey mum" on the end of the phone.
I don't even have his phone number. I'm crying as I write this, because after all he has done, I still love him,
he was my one and only and I put my heart and soul into bringing him up.
I looked forward to going to his wedding, he said I could go, then changed the date and venue at the last moment and didn't invite me, then he said I could go to the big celebration in the Summer when they'd saved up to have all their friends together, he promised me I could go. I wasn't invited to that either.
I have e.mailed him pleading with him asking him what I can do so that he will speak to me again - but he doesn't answer.
The shops shout Mothers Day in pink flowery cards and chocolates, DVDS and films, jewellery, every shop blasts it out at you. He was never very good at Mother's Day anyway, one year actually saying to me "I don't do Mother's Day." I answered back "Well I do!!"
He's my only son which makes it even more sore, most of my true close friends saw how I brought him up,
the effort I put into him, the things I did for him, the money and love I invested in him.
His graduation day was lovely, hot and sunny and we hired a B&B across the road from the Church he graduated in, I paid for his fiancees mother to come across from Japan, and for her to stay in my cottage in Cornwall with my son and her daughter for a week afterwards, we had champagne and strawberries and laughed and talked together, afterwards we helped my son move for the second time to his new flat in Cambridge.
I haven't seen or spoken to him for three years now. My heart actually hurts when I think about him.. I just wish I could go back to that day and hold him close and say goodbye properly.
Because I live my life with this great gaping hole in it that only he can fill and I don't think I'll ever see him again.